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♥ Thursday, January 07, 2010

Recent Life

“人生苦短几十年，要懂得那得拿起放得下”

31/12/2009 Thursday

Half day of work, and went count down with dear and his group of friend.

- 12pm+ have our company buffer.
- 1pm+ luck draw, i won the 7th gift which is a FM-MW Clock Radio.
- 3pm+ finish my OT, go home rest.
- 7pm+ dear come my house met up.
- 8pm+ go for dinner.
- 11pm+ met up with dear friends and sit around singapore flyer to watch firework.
- 1am+ go over dear house to get his car send me home..=）



01/01/2010 ~ 07/01/2010

most of the days is go out with dear do some shopping for my BBQ items.
spent around $400 - $500 for this time round, guess next year got to put a stop.
but is aright ones in awhile have fun with friend is nice, if not everyone got its own life to busy with. will only able update more on coming monday 11/01/2010， so guys please wait patiently ah.

next is found some thing interesting online. below is the photos effect program used online.is fun, but then there is not alot of choice, still is better then noting right. haha


last will be my 2010 New Year Resolutions

1. Love myself more, stay happy dun always feel sad over small little thing. also grateful that got him around to accompany me now.
2. Save money to reach my next target, i have been work for almost going 2year still not yet reach.
3. maybe go study, but i know is a waste of money and time as i wouldn't use the skill.lol.but there a chinese words call 活到老学到老, so learn some thing also is making your brain moving.
4. go travel at Korean by end of 2010 with my cousin and maybe dear?! got to see my dear got money to join or not.lol.
5. cut down my fat, i did put on some weight after work in office. is time to eat less and do more excise.
6. wish all my friend 2010 New Year Resolutions come true..cheer~

anyway this new year i have learn to be happy, and i am really happy with what i having now. friend who i maybe less contact, work that is damn bored, money that is never enough. but without all this bad kind of feeling i wouldn't know what is happiness which is i at least got friends, i got work to do, i got income. now i see my glass of water is half full then half empty. below are some email i get from friend, maybe is them who make me want face my life in bright side. thanks friends, you all maybe dunno my problem and never say anyway thing to comfort me but your email are the energy to my life. maybe is just 无声胜有声..

能解決的事，不必去擔心；
不能解決的事，擔心也沒用。
在順境中感恩、在逆境中依舊心存喜樂 ……

累了，就把心事放下來

最近認識一位美國籍的出家師父，是個很有趣的事情。
特別是他叫我舉起蕃茄汁，跟他說話的經驗。
我們約在新竹的一家茶館，用英文談論著心經，
師父用英文跟我解釋因果、輪迴這些事情，這都還不稀奇。

有趣的事情在後頭呢！
師父一聽完我跟他提到～個人煩惱的時候，
他索性要我左手提起～他剛買的三罐番茄汁，
一邊提著，一邊跟他說話。
可想而知，我左手感覺到疲勞的程度，跟時間成了正比。
也懊惱著為何師父要我一邊提著三罐蕃茄汁，一邊跟他說話。
受不了這樣的酸楚，我自行把左手放下，
卻聽到師父跟我說：
「 Hold it up, and keep talking to me. 」

聽到這樣的話，心理不免起了疑心，
我手提的那麼酸，
為何不讓我放下手上的重物，輕鬆地與他對談？
約莫過了15分鐘，我的左手實在承受不住了，
才聽見師父跟我說：「Now you can put it down.」。
看著我狐疑的臉，師父居然笑了出來。

「你不喜歡提著重物跟我說話， 為何你卻喜歡帶著煩惱，過著你的生活呢？
手酸了，放下就好，對待煩惱，不也是這樣？
或是這些煩惱，就像是那些番茄汁一樣，
是你自己用手把它們給舉起來的呢？」
有趣的經驗，對吧？
最近我開始這樣的練習，
一手舉起有重量的東西，一邊想著事情。
手酸了，自然會放下手上的東西，
看看有一天，我會不會也學到，心累了，就把心事給放下來。
我們能很容易的放下有形的重物，
卻很難放下無形的重擔。

執著的人生～會讓自己承擔莫需有的重擔。
學習放下執著～也就在學習人生自在。

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